Women know that a lot of techniques, due to which they manage to wake up man sexual desire. There is a perception that using such techniques should only the sex, but in relation to them is optional.
However, the affection, the men that really want to please your partner, if you ask about how to excite a woman. Perhaps, they do this in some degree, and for themselves, because, if she is happy, is able to the man to give pleasure.
What are the steps that you need to do?
The men realize that the representatives of the opposite sex different, and this means that the approach to each one of them needs an individual look. And yet there are universal tricks that will help excite your partner, as well or, at least, set the mood with the arrival of the evening.
The novel. Organize it to have a representative of the stronger sex, if he waits a pleasant continuation of the evening.
Candles and a delicious dinner – the first step to create the desired atmosphere. Not all men cooks, but this is not necessary. You can build a light dinner, but, even if it is not under power, you can simply order food from cafes or restaurants.
All know that there are very few products capable of, so to say, to elevate the man of the spirit, but also about the female libido can also be affected with the food. The excitation representative of the fair sex, it is easier if she like banana, orange, corn, currant, grapes, honey, pistachio, mango, shrimp, vanilla, chocolate.
All together, you can, of course, does not apply on the table, but even one or more of the products in this list, it is enough. Relax help and a little bit of alcohol, and the both of you. Only that the alcoholic beverages in large quantities to consume, it is not worth, to not relax too strongly.
In fact, alcohol causes to play the hormones, therefore, the emotion can come to the both of you quickly:
- Colors. Representatives of the stronger sex believe that the presentation bouquet is tacky, boring and, in general obsolete, but it is not so. The colors help you to get closer, not only mentally, but also put the woman in physical proximity. They can also be different from acting on the weaker sex. For example, mallow, ylang-ylang, jasmine smell, that to help set up the representative of the beautiful sex, romantic lad;
- Words. Who does not know that the woman likes ears. Soft words spoken in a whisper, have a magical effect. Of course, they should be about how beautiful she is, so beautiful fall in curls over his shoulders and the tempting shine of the eyes;
- Excite your partner to correctly and quickly will help to certain phrases in duet with touches, strokes – loving, and sensual. You need to find your erogenous zone. The majority of the representatives of the fair sex, pleasure in fondling the chest, neck, thighs, but each one is individual, and man's need to try to find some kind of point, which is an erogenous zone exclusively for it. For someone this can be the toes of the feet, someone likes caresses of the bending of the elbows, and to someone and stroking the hair roots;
- Massage. Tactile caresses can cause partners the desire to get more touches and massages, and in this case, does not have much by the way. Start your best with the back, so ask the girl to lie on the belly. Begin massage traffic you need to with the neck, moving gently in the back along the spine. In the massage is important to the consistency, therefore, of the back need to drop the hands on your hips, and then the your feet, in the toes, feet. For many women, the feet and toes of the feet – erogenous zone, but if you play are very easy, the partner can experience the tickling and such sensations can completely stop the romance. Realizing the minor discomfort with his hand, the man needs to stop massaging the geographical area. In this erotic massage at home is not the end. Help the girl to roll over, lie on your back. Tap on the face, neck, ears, go to the chest, the belly;
- The odors. It's not worth ignoring them and, by the way, during the massage also. Vanilla, patchouli, musk, mint, jasmine, ylang-ylang – all of these smells are able to give the partner the right mood. During the massage, you can use the oil with these fragrances, it does not hurt, and aroma candles to create an intimate atmosphere. In this case, it is important not to overdo it. If you are going to be too many flavors, they are intrusive, can cause pain in the head;
- The music. It is well stimulates sexual desire, but that she must be, in large part, depends on the preference of the girl. It is believed that better than the rest excites quiet music or the one you liked the most from the partner. Better, if she's not going to sound high, otherwise a romantic evening and runs the risk of turning into a concert.
The women love and the eyes
Many think that this only concerns the stronger sex, but and the lady is also oriented not only auditory organs.
So if you can excite the woman in the form of a man?
- Casually unbuttoned shirt. Almost 2/3 of the fair sex experience sexual desire, if before them a man in an informal environment and desabotoou the shirt;
- Tight Jeans or short shorts. When the shape of a man in such a fact, excited for about half of the fair sex;
- Sunglasses. Apparently, the men in sunglasses of the girl see the enigma, that is what makes each and every room of them to experience a passion for it;
- The repair of the car. The man, passionately doing exactly that, it is able to cause sexual desire in more than 30% of the opposite sex;
- Cooking. Almost half of young people who like, when a representative of the stronger sex prepares in the kitchen.
In addition, the girl can experience the excitement, when he impressively sitting, lying belly-down, sleep, or go with stretched shoulders.
Some representatives of the beautiful sex can excite to see the male of lingerie, even just to see it in the store.
If the woman is 40
Beautiful sex at that age, it rapidly excite, it is not always possible. Impact reduced hormonal activity, due to which it stops in the right amount of highlight lubrication, sexual desire in the opposite sex in general, becomes not as it was previously.
Sometimes, to achieve a quick excitement partners, which for the past 40 years, you will need to use additional lubrication, but this is only the physical aspect.
Not less important and mental attitude of the woman. You can achieve the same means that women of other age ranges – romantic, touching, soft, massage, a pleasant music and relaxing aromas.
Special attention must be given according to what you say to her. Due to some physiological characteristics at this age, she may experience the psychological discomfort, worried about their appearance more than experienced before. It is important to convey to the partner that she is sexually attractive, and if there is any type of difficulty, then they are surmountable, including thanks to one man.
Maybe if excite frigid women?
If a girl is not indifferent to a intimate relationship, in every way to avoid them, have an aversion of a single thoughts about sex or is not able to have an orgasm, it is referred to as such.
In reality, these women are very few, and in many cases of girls who refuse the sex, the others are right – the negative experience of a previous relationship, distrust of his partner and t. d. the Lack of orgasm can also be a manifestation of frigidity, in a sign that the evil, man has tried.
Excite iced a woman, if she really is such, is really difficult. For this, it is necessary to know not only your erogenous zone, which, as well as other women, does not necessarily lie in the region of the chest, genitals, thighs, but and set you up psychologically. To do this, you need to find out the cause of your problems.
In some cases, these girls have to work their doctor. The expert goes from a conversation about the characteristics of an intimate relationship, discretely through testing find out which are the girl erogenous zones.
If the woman is really such, the use at home of an excited state of the drugs will hardly help, and if it works, the output of a position that would not be.
Even if the partners in a stable relationship with one another, the sex is still always different. For both partners the need to always look for new ways how to "do" and get to know each other and, otherwise, with time, the relationship can seem both cool and came to a halt.